I'd like to reiterate a statistic that I have mentioned in a previous post: We check our "smartphone" an average of 150 times a day.
Now, Let's say most of us sleep at least 8 hours of a night, that leaves you with 16 hours of the day to play with your device (hopefully most of you have some alternative form of vibrating device to play with). We can safely say that we check our "smartphone" almost every 6 minutes!
The reason I have reiterated this statistic is simply because I am inundated with a similar question from many of you.
Why does he take so long to reply to my text, email or phone call? Most of you live in hope that he hasn't seen the message yet, you keep telling yourselves, "oh,he must be busy"...he's not.
He's seen your message and he's doing one of a few things:
Smiling and sharing your message, possibly gloating to himself or his friends or thinking about how should he respond, as most men do not have a way with words.
However, the most likely reason there is no message tone or vibrating reverberation from your "Smartphone" is simply because, he is NOT FUCKING INTERESTED!
I apologise for my bluntness, however I feel it's required in this instance, for many of you live in hope, hope that he is not like the rest of us and doesn't check his "smartphone" as often as the next person. Sadly, your friends may also support your illogical frame of mind and agree with you.
Which brings me to my next point. Busy: If that's the response he's coughing up because it's taken him 6 hours to respond, Its a lie. Its simply to buy time, blow you off. That so called "time" is bought so he can have space, think and respond to the messages he feels require his attention. If you haven't heard back in 24 hours, then you don't have his attention nor should you want it. Move on. Again, He's not fucking interested.
I get it, you all hate the games. Why can't he just tell you if he's interested or not. This is not how men think, we are constantly on the lookout for something better. Better job, better house, better car...better female companion. There is method to his madness as there should be to yours. Trust in what I'm about to tell you, these small phrases will keep most men on the hook and you may even hang onto him, if he's someone you really want. (This will have to be my next post - I'm busy)
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Till the next time you have the pleasure of receiving me in your inbox.